If one were to study Indology as a discipline, one would find that most
interpretations of the ancient ideologies bear a clear stamp of western
prudishness. The reason, most of these studies were academically done
by European intelligentsia in the most prudish of their historical
period. It is also very natural that topics like sexual relations and
alternate sexuality is not discussed as commonly as lifestyle or
philosophy contained in these texts. So, if one wants to know about the
acceptance levels of homosexuality, particularly lesbianism in ancient
India, one has no option but to go through starched collars and monocle
reeking studies of great Western Indologists. Very few Indian scholars
would care to elaborate on this, certainly not the moth eaten ones. It
follows that there is very little material available on this extremely
interesting subject in Indian academic circles, and more so, even
lesser works are available that could allow one to come to a definitive
conclusion.
The term `lesbian? itself does not seem to exist in ancient India,
since it is western in origin. So the only information can be from
descriptions of same sex relationships, whether man and man or woman
and woman. Of these, man to man relationships find much more mention
and even acceptance (if it is only to chart out whats punishable and
whats not). That, understandably, does not take away from the fact
that lesbianism existed and even flourished in ancient India. There are
many evidences for this, and even punishments charted out (though in a
lower voice), in the texts.
Any Indian or otherwise, who has had the pleasure of seeing the
temple carvings in a remote village in Central India, Khajuraho, knows
what the others have missed. That India is the birthplace of the
Kamasutra seems be a puny observation when compared with the sensuality
of these bas reliefs, huge, imposing, beautifully carved temple
sculptures of men, women, celebrating the erotic, sexuality in all its
forms, alternate or otherwise. There seems to be no sense of holding
back, or any kind of hesitation in this ocean of sensual love. If one
were to consider these sculptures an indication of sexuality among
ancient Indians, then one can wisely shake their head and say?Yes, the
were right on TOP (no pun intended). The sheer magic of a sculpture
that brings alive sexual intercourse in its most intimate form, yet
fails to look obscene, is to be seen to be believed.
The sculptures in Khajuraho make no distinction between same sex
erotica and heterosexuality. This could make one believe, there was
certainly more to same sex love in ancient India than meets the eyes of
the academicians.
However, we have to believe the interpretations of The Manu Smriti
(the oldest text of Indian philosophy, in the Vedas), to be clear on
the acceptance of lesbianism in the society, which seemed to be
minuscule. It is no secret that the Vedic culture, in its most ancient
form was gyno-centric - placing the female power on a pedestal,
worshiping and consecrating the female form as in no other culture.
But even then, accepting their sexuality was not done, most of the
females in this form were sacred, great as wives, sisters, pure as the
drive snow? or as consorts, meant for procreation but little else. The
Manu Smriti, the most powerful and authoritative scripture n the oldest
and most expansive of the Vedas, doles out punishments to aberrant
sexual behaviors, punishable by the law. Interestingly, a man, in
Manu's opinion, indulging in homosexuality has to bear the punishment
of bathing with all his clothes on, while a woman found guilty of the
same act, has a much higher price to pay (not to mention social shame).
If it is between two virgins, the Seducer virgin has to pay a
monetary fine as well as bride price for the girl she seduced, and
receive a lashing. A mature woman caught seducing a virgin shall have
her head shaved; fingers (two) cut off and is made to ride through the
town on a donkey. (Surely the most interesting part in this judgment
will be the process of determination as to who seduced whom!!!!) The
laws of Manu gives many variations on punishment to aberrant sexual
behavior, which can be safely classified under non-procreative sexual
behavior as against sexual contact for begetting children.
By the beginning of the first millennium, the Indian society was
more or less patriarchal. The acceptance of female sexuality also
diminished steadily till the tenth century, when it all but
disappeared, largely due to repeated and sustained Islamic invasions.
But this period is also distinctive in that it saw the rise of the Kali
pantheon; again the emergence of female power - but this was more of a
Brahminical reaction to Islamic religious forces. This rising had
nothing to do with respect for women or even the acceptance of their
individuality, but more to do with countering the widespread
conversions to Islam. India, at that time, was burdened with social
evils and for the lower classes of the society, conversion meant some
reprieve.
This new awareness completely refused to recognize the existence
of female sexuality, let alone accepting lesbianism. The sole purpose
of women as sexual beings was for procreation, and any kind of
non-procreative sex (especially by women), was, in their minds, non
existent. Female sexuality, in the collective social mind, became a
property of the man she was married to, and hence, theoretically,
lesbianism ceased to exist.
With the coming of the Europeans, more havoc was wrecked on this
already warped outlook, because they brought with them the distinction
between various classes of women. There were the good, wives and
mothers in the Indian context, and there were those western women who
drank wine and danced with men not their husbands, basically Eastern
spirituality versus Western materialism. This led to further pushing of
sexuality of the Indian woman to the dark corners of the social
mind?and except for a few enlightened intellectuals who talked openly
of widow remarriage and womens education (which were considered sins
during that period), no one even thought of female sexuality as
existing. The powerful Goddess pantheon was all but wiped out and
Goddesses became nothing but consorts, properly wedded and bedded.
In contemporary India, there are many surprising facts that owe
their surprise to the efforts of various agencies to brush them under
the carpet and firmly keep them there. While gay rights and
homosexuality is of course an issue for those whom it matters,
lesbianism is till not mentioned openly. There are men activists but
very few women activists. There are rights for a gay marriage, but
scarcely any female couple has exchanged vows in India, openly that is.
It would seem that centuries of brushing under the carpet has put the
fact of lesbianism and female sexuality firmly in the dark recesses of
Indian minds. Not even with the glorious revival of sexual rights in
other fields, the right to dignity, the right to education, profession
or financial freedom, can women ask for their most fundamental right,
the right to be sexual beings,and if they prefer to love another
woman well, that much worse.
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